One thing that has taken me almost twenty years to realize is that style is not necessarily about following fashion trends. Style is about wearing something that makes you feel good, flatters your body shape and makes you look classy and not tarty.
There is no better way than to create your own signature style than with a special bag, a pair of shoes, a print scarf, a man's watch, or any other fashion accessory. In Glamour magazine’s November 2006 article “The 8 Laws of Style” runway king Michael Kors advises, “Have a signature piece. It’s the most classic way to look chic. Zero in on that one thing – eg boots, a bag or sunglasses,”
Once you have honed in on a piece in your wardrobe you really love, then wear it with almost everything! If it is likely to last more than one season then buy the best quality you can afford. This also means, according to Kors, that its okay to break the fashion rules, like wearing boots in summer or wearing a brocade skirt to work.
Personally, I love this year’s trend in headbands and now have a collection of over 20, (which I wear with almost everything.) This is my signature style, and whilst albeit a temporary one, it makes me feel fun and flirty. The locals here have got to know my distinctive look, and the headbands have become a conversational ice-breaker and are often met with a warm Thai smile.
Two other weaknesses I’ll admit to is my cream Spy bag and a pair of baby-soft suede boots, which I insist on wearing (over jeans) here in Thailand, despite temperatures which never dip below 25-30 degrees!